I see stars – The Hardest Mistakes

I made the hardest mistakes, I need to let them go.

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strength

Are you really a victim if you allow something to happen?
Maybe, maybe not.
I cannot decide.

I enabled you.

I accepted poor treatment.

I assured you the anger and violence was forgivable.

That the manipulation and lies were cunning; that you were so smart.

You told me that your friends and family said all these terrible things about me.
Your best friend thought I was too dumb for you to date.
You said your mom wanted me to be supermodel beautiful and skinny, and to her, I wasn’t good enough for you.
Now I wonder if those words were even theirs; I think they were really yours.

I wanted to prove myself to be worth something to someone.

Wanted to be perfect.
Be perfect for you.
Because perfect was something I’d never been for anyone.
Perfect was something I couldn’t even be for myself.

You encouraged me to be this girl you wanted.
Even though you knew the girl you wanted, that girl wasn’t me.
You pushed me to be another person.
And I allowed it.

I’ll never forget the day I asked if you thought I was pretty.
Your answer scarred me for years.
You said I had the potential to be beautiful.
You told me you were waiting for me to one day blossom.

It cut deep.

Starving myself wasn’t enough.
Plastic surgery was your next suggestion.
Then maybe starving myself a little more.
My hair was all wrong too.
You wanted a girl with red hair.
I guess that why you tried to fuck my neighbor.
Or maybe you actually did.
I’m not sure.

On my loneliest nights, all I could hear in my head was criticism.
You made me believe those voices were right.

But I have to thank you.
Because of you I found strength that I never had before.
I found an inner beauty that once didn’t exist.
I learned to treat myself better.
And I learned to accept life with more grace.
Most importantly I learned how to walk away from something that wasn’t right.

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Breathe – Anna Nalick

I’ve held this song close to my heart since I was about fifteen. The lyrics have always enticed me and the chorus always makes me feel calmed. The words seem to mean something new every time I rediscover the song.

2 AM and she calls me ’cause I’m still awake
“Can you help me unravel my latest mistake?
I don’t love him, winter just wasn’t my season”

Yeah we walk through the doors, so accusing their eyes
Like they have any right at all to criticize
Hypocrites, you’re all here for the very same reason

And cause you can’t jump the track, we’re like cars on a cable
And life’s like an hourglass, glued to the table
No one can find the rewind button, girl
So cradle your head in your hands

And breathe, just breathe
Oh breathe, just breathe

In May he turned 21 on the base at Fort Bliss
“Just a Day,” he said down to the flask in his fist
“Ain’t been sober, since maybe October of last year”

Here in town you can tell he’s been down for awhile
But, my God, it’s so beautiful when the boy smiles
Wanna hold him, maybe I’ll just sing about it

‘Cause you can’t jump the track, we’re like cars on a cable
And life’s like an hourglass, glued to the table
No one can find the rewind button, boys
So cradle your head in your hands

And breathe, just breathe
Oh breathe, just breathe

There’s a light at each end of this tunnel
You shout ’cause you’re just as far in as you’ll ever be out
And these mistakes you’ve made, you’ll just make them again
If you only try turning around

2 AM and I’m still awake, writing a song
If I get it all down on paper, it’s no longer
Inside of me threatening the life it belongs to

And I feel like I’m naked in front of the crowd
‘Cause these words are my diary, screaming out loud
And I know that you’ll use them however you want to

But you can’t jump the track, we’re like cars on a cable
And life’s like an hourglass, glued to the table
No one can find the rewind button now
Sing it if you understand

And breathe, just breathe
Whoa breathe, just breathe
Oh breathe, just breathe
Oh breathe, just breathe

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These words are stuck on the tip of my tongue

Which is uglier?

Speaking your heart before picking out adequate words,

or dwelling on your heart’s feelings because you never find suitable words?

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destruction

The thoughts in my head scare me.
Not because of their nature.
Nor because they are crude, evil or wrong.

This fear attacks my insides because I’m struck with a realization;
these thoughts, they are my own.

An epiphany of simplicity.

These thoughts. My thoughts. These feelings. My feelings.

They are here.
They are in there.
They are mine.

But, your thoughts, your opinions; they are also there sometimes.
Still fighting to control,
to take over,
to win.
Everything about you consumed me.
Now it is all imprinted on my soul, lost in my brainwaves.
You devoured my soul.

I get transfixed on analyzing.
I’m sucked into a whirlwind of deciding who I am.
Deciding who you are.
Deciding how to differentiate between yourself and myself.

Is this my fault, or is it yours?

It results in a feeling of insanity.
I try to place a textbook term of some psychological problem on it.
Self-doubting, believing it must be a mental disease.

When will this internal storm completely fade?

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invasion

I can’t feel close to another person.
Because you were too close.
You invaded my soul.

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silence

My soul was lost; forgotten by everyone, including myself.
Swallowed by a life distinguished by somebody else.

Constantly cornered by relentless words.
Invisible weapons, leaving invisible wounds.

I plead for karma to take control and make things fair.
Transfixed by a desire to inflict comparable anguish.

I found my voice through silence.

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six months of pregnancy

I’m nearing 26 weeks pregnant.
Where has the time gone?
Six whole months I’ve been carrying this child around in my stomach.
Yet some days it feels as though its only been a few weeks since I found out.

I’m tired.
I’m scared.
This is harder than it looks.
I’m sad.
I’m trying.
My life has no rewind button.
I’m alone.

The father..
I hope he loses interest.

You probably think that’s disturbing or cold-heartened.
You probably think I’m twisted and thinking of only myself.
You’re entitled to entertaining those thoughts.
Yet, you haven’t met him.
My only desire is to protect my baby girl.

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spiral clouds

To sit in a puddle of water,
rain splashing down an upturned face.
A beautiful stormy sky with wet hair being flipped about by the wind.

Feelings I seal tightly.
Deep inside; love and fear, hand-in-hand.
I watch gray clouds thundering, menacing.
The lightning strikes down, pure gold shatters and clanks into the pot at the end of the rainbow.

Pure awe, an exquisite scene, abundant in serene exhilaration.

I continue to dare staring into the eye of the storm.
I can’t refuse the sight.

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